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Subject: Re: Wetlook on the brain

Date: Thu 07/04/05 05:32:22 GMT

Name: Bostonwet

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Hi russ...I`m a 49 yr old wetlook junkie with a similar early history to Frankie. When I was younger it was an obsession; constantly hanging around beaches, fountains, water rides, swimming holes, etc......Always trying to get my girlfriend(s) in the water w/ clothes, swimming in my clothes whenever possible, walking around in downpours, the whole nine yards. It did have a negative effect on my life (I`m a musician by profession; I remember canceling out on gigs, playing gigs in wet clothes, people I worked w/ thinking me quite odd, etc.) but I often wonder what I would have been doing if not chasing wetness. Maybe something worse. When I took a cruise ship gig in `82 I was away from wetlook for the most part for two years. When I left the ships my obsession had morphed into a more narrow desire to primarily swim w/ my girlfriend (now my wife of 18 yrs) in our clothes. Fortunately she`s been pretty cool about it; if the water is really warm she`s enjoys it somewhat (she definately enjoys the "after effects") and we swim frequently when we`re on vacation (never enough!). As far as the kids are concerned, we don`t swim clothed around them much anymore (they`re entering the teen years so they think we`re freaks anyway) but some of my most erotic memories are of my wife taking the toddlers into the pool/lake/ocean wearing tight jeans or a skirt outfit - ohmygod!. The bottom line for me is that it`s not a big part of my life anymore - I`ve changed, my responsibilities have changed, my priorities have changed - and I imagine the same will happen to you. Through it all swimming in clothes w/ the wife is still my favorite fun activity and helps to keep the marital fire going. I think, however, that if we did it all the time it would lessen the experience - maybe wetlook moderation is the key to a "sustainable" fetish!

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Wetlook on the brain

By Russ - russ@russ.net Wed 06/04/05 16:26:09 GMT

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Have you ever felt like wetlook is on your mind nearly 24x7 and sometimes your life didn't have to ALWAYS revolve around it? Whenever you go to the beach, hotel with a pool, whenever it rains, when out in the kayak, etc, etc it seems like if you or your mate don't get wet, your day is a total loss, and so you stew and stew all day long trying to figure out what to do, and then end up very frustrated at yourself for being so much in a rut it drives you crazy?!

I went to a Psych a few weeks ago (first time in my life) because I thought it was starting to get the best of me. Sometimes I drive my wife crazy and tell her i'm going through withdrawls if she doesn't get wet soon. Anyway, the Psych says if you withdrawl from something as much as possible, it will eventually fade out of your mind and not be the #1 thing in your mind anymore and it will subside. I'm not sure if I believe it, but he wanted me to try going without for awhile and not thinking about it. I don't think it's possible. It's like an addiction. I can't just blank it out. I worry I might miss some good pics on this forum if I don't stop by every other day or so! I couldn't possibly completely blank it out of my mind. It's been on my mind ever since I can remember, and it's not going away anytime soon. I told him how it has gotten expensive sometimes - I had to have a boat, an 8 person hottub, an above ground pool, now I want a inground pool. Doc says I have a "desire disorder." Did he make this prognosis up or is there even a such thing?

Do you feel this way sometimes? That your whole life revolves around wetlook? I feel that more and more over the years. Sometimes I try to picture myself when I'm 70 or 80 years old and wonder how an old man could possibly be into wetlook. Old men aren't into wetlook, are they? :)

I also wonder how it will be if I ever have children (wife and I have been trying to for years now.) What will my child or children think? Should I bring them up to think its normal and fun? Will they eventually think their dad is a freak?

Doc put me on 150mg and then 300mg Wellbutrin. I don't think i'm depressed, but he said it'll make me feel better :) It definitely seems to do that. Didn't realize I could feel any better than I already do!

Anyway, just thought i'd vent... Interested in if I'm the only one in the world with a "desire disorder"... Dunno if I really want to cure it... Wetlook is too much fun to even think about forgetting...

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