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Message # 62712.2 Subject: Re:Raising children in a wetlook family Date: Sun 02/11/14 17:28:46 GMT Name: Sunboyfun Email: sunboyfun@gmail.com Website: creativewetlook.com |
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My first reaction was this: I think any pursuit which is possibly associated with a fetish or some sexually-satisfying activity, even one as benign as wetlook appreciation on the surface is, should not be practiced around children. It is a tricky subject because of course, as mentioned, simply getting wet with clothing on seems so innocent on the surface but it is all about perceptions. I am not a puritan and there are certainly degrees of what wetlook means to different people. Good judgement should prevail, is the big message I would advise.
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In reply to Message (62712) Raising children in a wetlook family
By SwimInClothes - swim.in.clothes@hotmail.com Sun 02/11/14 15:59:56 GMT Hi all,
I've been sitting, and pondering here in the hospital with the wifey who's preggo with twins - 31 1/2 weeks along (her water broke) - with lots of time to think and try to fight the boredom, and was starting to imagine how our active wetlook lives will be different with two baby boys running around. I really don't think it will be too different when they are babies, but I often wonder what might change or questions might come up from them when they're old enough to realize Mommy and Daddy are swimming in different attire than everyone else. I'm sure it will be a non-event since they'll be used to seeing it, but I still wonder. I also am afraid of the possibility that wifey will suddenly be uncomfortable being fully clothed in our pool with the kids awake and running around like she is with friends or family who is visiting :(.
In somewhat of a similar (?) situation, we have two lady friends who are "a pair" and who raised two children together and their (now teen) children seem oblivious to it but they still have not talked about it and don't think the children even know (I think that's suspect, but it's just not talked about.) Obviously, I will not and cannot hide my constant desire for partaking in wetlook, and don't think I need to (other than hiding any photos/videos I have, of course). I guess it just is going to feel a bit different/weird having new eyes regularly seeing what I've hidden for 38ish years, let alone family!
Anyone else brought up new baby or babies in a pro-wetlook home have any helpful advice or experience to share? I know i'm probably over analyzing and probably have nothing to worry about (except for my wife suddenly feeling like she has to "be good" in front of the kids!) TIA
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