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Message # 62712.4.1 Subject: Re:Raising children in a wetlook family Date: Mon 03/11/14 12:25:26 GMT Name: Wetlooker2 |
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What's wrong with swimming with your clothes on?
Okay, for us it's reached sexual, adult activity.
But if I get a girlfriend and we swim with clothes on together, then we equip children and allows them to try. If they get to swim with clothes on at an early age, and early learn that it is acceptable to do so.
Then perhaps we can get easier to live with it. Do you think the sexual experience can reduce?
I tell myself, I am now 30 years old, soon moving to a new city where I will get to swim with clothes on in public pool. I am quite alone and has had problems with school and other things so I will have a so-called contact-person, a person who will support / comply with the activities and do something together with me.
Its not assistance, more a friend who will do something with me and i not need to be alone every time i will go out and do something.
Now this is a young girl, I am 30, she is about 26th We will meet and swim with clothes on together. Yes she like my ideas and will give it a try, she will try some modelling with me behind the camera to. AND she know its a fetisch for me but she are relax and say "you must live with it". Do you think this will dampen my sexual loosely over wet clothes? Maybe be more easy to live with this fetisch if i be active with it and have someone to talk about wetlook with. She will help me make my swedish wetlook site better to.
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In reply to Message (62712.4) Re:Raising children in a wetlook family
By Al'eau - Sun 02/11/14 23:21:59 GMT Congrats :)
I have 2 kids, 9 and 7 and I always swim in Tshirt ... and mostly fully clothed when there are no friend or neighbor around. At the beginning, kids asked why "dad is always swimming with clothes", I simply replied "because I like it ...", and they don't bother now. Often, I take shower clothed and my wife join me time to time. Our kids knows (by themselves) they have to keep us alone in this case.
Obviously, there is strictly no sexuality when kids are around.
I'm restricting to a Tshirt when they have friends at home and I say it's for skin protection and it doesn't create any issue.
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In reply to Message (62712) Raising children in a wetlook family
By SwimInClothes - swim.in.clothes@hotmail.com Sun 02/11/14 15:59:56 GMT Hi all,
I've been sitting, and pondering here in the hospital with the wifey who's preggo with twins - 31 1/2 weeks along (her water broke) - with lots of time to think and try to fight the boredom, and was starting to imagine how our active wetlook lives will be different with two baby boys running around. I really don't think it will be too different when they are babies, but I often wonder what might change or questions might come up from them when they're old enough to realize Mommy and Daddy are swimming in different attire than everyone else. I'm sure it will be a non-event since they'll be used to seeing it, but I still wonder. I also am afraid of the possibility that wifey will suddenly be uncomfortable being fully clothed in our pool with the kids awake and running around like she is with friends or family who is visiting :(.
In somewhat of a similar (?) situation, we have two lady friends who are "a pair" and who raised two children together and their (now teen) children seem oblivious to it but they still have not talked about it and don't think the children even know (I think that's suspect, but it's just not talked about.) Obviously, I will not and cannot hide my constant desire for partaking in wetlook, and don't think I need to (other than hiding any photos/videos I have, of course). I guess it just is going to feel a bit different/weird having new eyes regularly seeing what I've hidden for 38ish years, let alone family!
Anyone else brought up new baby or babies in a pro-wetlook home have any helpful advice or experience to share? I know i'm probably over analyzing and probably have nothing to worry about (except for my wife suddenly feeling like she has to "be good" in front of the kids!) TIA
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