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Subject: None Re:Introduction, questions, description

Date: Fri 20/11/15 21:31:58 GMT

Name: Malvineous gb

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As terms like "nerd" become trendy, they become watered down just as all language does. It's already starting to feel like a new word is needed to replace "nerd", since it will never be the case in human civilisation that such a mindset will ever become desirable. "Nerd" is another word being reclaimed by trendy people pretending to be something that they're not out of some bizarre misconception that it is somehow a pleasant experience to view the world from a drastically different perspective to the rest of society, instead of the reality, where it is deeply alienating. Such people can't even conceive of these other perspectives.

 

I can't say of course whether this boyfriend was truly a nerd or not, but I would be surprised, statistically speaking.

 

Well, I'll add you to my mental statistical model — one extra data point, yet still so very little data. As I said before, this is a subject of experience, and there's only so much musing than can be done before it all becomes hollow and empty. Clearly you've benefited from a lot of good fortune in life (in addition to some great misfortune).

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By Linds - lindsey.ambs@yahoo.com us Fri 20/11/15 02:15:09 GMT

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Hey

I agree with the messy thing, before I found this I had no idea that existed and since I'm a clean freak it has no appeal to me. I don't know about an off switch for wetlook. It's so ingrained in whom I am that I can't imagine not doing it. I get wet several times a week and while it's not always erotic it's always fun. Through a lot of therapy I've realized that it puts me in touch with the childhood I wasn't allowed to have so it's something I wouldn't want to give up.

Nothing wrong with being a nerd. I had a boyfriend at one point that everyone pegged as a nerd, including himself, but when we were alone he really blossomed and I just came to realize that it's who he was. Believe it or not but in groups of people I'm very quiet so we were a pretty good fit.

Linds

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By Malvineous - mrnemesis@ntlworld.com gb Thu 19/11/15 22:06:04 GMT

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I didn't word what I wrote correctly! By "in turn" I didn't mean "in return for getting wet" ... What I really meant was, if I have a fetish, then there is a possibility that the woman might also have a fetish, and that it might be something that I don't care for. Messy isn't my thing at all, and I am repulsed by anything involving wanton damage. If you have something that you don't need, give it to someone who does need it, instead of destroying it. I don't have a mobile phone, but for three years I carried a Psion Revo palmtop with me, and I always felt a degree of fear of that ending up in the water, not necessarily through wetlook, as it could also be from a boat trip gone wrong. (Not only because it was a nightmare to back up over RS232 -- the full 15 MB of data over serial took a long time to copy to my Macintosh! That was after I figured out how to get backups working -- the Revo had a misfeature that would break backups. This was before the likes of USB and microSD. microSD was even more unimaginable then than it remains to this day.)

 

There's a lot of strange fetishes, and they don't appeal to me. Even wetlook often seems like more trouble than it's actually worth, such that it would be preferable to have a permanent "off" switch to erase it from my brain: it serves me absolutely no useful purpose whatsoever.

 

I'm better known (not as Malvin) for my keyboard technology research -- that brings measurable success both for me and for the community. I can't presently imagine any way to bring a woman into my nerd mindset. Wetlook is a by-the-by in comparison -- there are much bigger compatibility issues involved.

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By Linds - lindsey.ambs@yahoo.com us Thu 19/11/15 20:03:37 GMT

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Hey Malvin

I've never heard of Xargon Trilogy but the only computer game I ever played was another MS-DOS game called Zork. Thinking back on it, it's official name may have been something like "Zork the Underground Empire," but that's reaching way back into the cobwebs of my brain and I may be completely off base. I haven't played it, now that I think about it, since I pretty much figured out what wetlook was although at the time I didn't know it had a name.

That's an interesting observation, if a woman gets wet for you what would she expect in turn? I guess the only way to find out is to try but my guess would be that it might be pretty insignificant in your mind.

Yeah, the second date with Rick was awesome, I'm writing about our second date now. We went out for a couple of years and had a lot of fun wet times together.

Thanks for the thoughts

Linds

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By Malvineous - mrnemesis@ntlworld.com gb Wed 18/11/15 23:52:32 GMT

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It's not something that I've ever experienced with anyone else. I live in the countryside, and I used to go on walks and get wet in the rain or puddles. I recall rolling around in this huge puddle in the driveway of some local farmhouse early one morning, presumably before anyone got up. Since I tend towards being a night owl, I guess the morning must have been the end of my day instead of the beginning! In quite a few such instances, I took my camera along, and I do have most of those photos in that undead folder on my Macintosh. (Which I use so rarely, I couldn't even remember the password to it today and had to reboot into single user mode to reset my account password!)

 

Something that occurred to me a while back:

 

Wetlook is very mild by fetish terms. Anyone who would be resistant to trying it would be far too closed-minded for me to deal with, although that does not make any guarantee that they'd enjoy it, as not everyone responds to the sensations in the same way.

 

However, it leads me to wonder: if I would be expecting some woman to get wet with me, what might she be expecting of me in turn? I fear that it would be something a lot worse that I'd definitely not be up for.

 

Your second date story though .... you seem to have struck lucky bigtime. (I was tempted to comment on it, but I'm bitter and twisted and it wasn't worth creating a new WordPress account that doesn't have my real name on it :-) "Malvineous" is from the Xargon Trilogy, an adorable MS-DOS game.)

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By Linds - lindsey.ambs@yahoo.com us Wed 18/11/15 23:21:26 GMT

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Hi Malvin

Wow, thanks for the thought out, insightful response. I know what you mean about wetlook being an experience. When I started my blog, it seemed like writing about things that were so vivid in my mind were rather flat once on paper. Almost like I was doing them a disservice writing them down.

As to seeing guys wet, I guess I'm fortunate that I'm more visual than most women but I do like to see guys get wet but I also think women look incredibly sexy wet. The think I like about it visually, like you said, is that if a guy has a great physique it is really accentuated when he's wet. What I prefer is to get wet with someone, men or women, rather than watching it though. I don't know if it's a jealousy thing, wishing it was me getting wet, or what but I don't think so. I just want to be a participant rather than an observer so while I've watched a few videos of people getting wet they don't really fascinate me so much. If I can mentally visualize myself in that situation then that's a different story but as a rule I'd rather be doing than watching.

And yes, the "naughtiness" of it is a big draw also. I love getting wet with someone when it's their first time but it can be a double edged sword. If they like it it is a real rush but if they're like, ewww, it really takes some of the fun away.

I guess we're sort of similar in a way. If I don't get my hair wet it really doesn't feel like the whole thing was as good as it could be. Sometimes if I can't get my hair wet, I almost feel like it wasn't worth it. It's still fun but not nearly as much as if I'm soaked from head to toe. And yes, I love the look of water streaming down hair and leaving an almost vertical river down their shirt. The feeling is fantastic because it really prolongs the wetting experience because it keeps you wet longer.

We are different in the clinging feeling. I love the tight feeling when you first get out of water and your clothes are just sucked to your body like a vacuum and am always disappointed as that feeling subsides. Don't get me wrong, I love walking in wet clothes as they swish against my body but I really cherish that clinging wet feeling. Maybe because it's always so fleeting. Often I'll get in and out of the water, just to get that feeling more and more.

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By Malvineous - mrnemesis@ntlworld.com gb Tue 17/11/15 23:01:17 GMT

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As the resident nerd, I suppose I may as well throw in my own tuppence ...
First: it seems from the posts here are by guys pretty much for guys. Are there any or many women on here?
In terms of those people who openly make their sex known, extremely few (one or two maybe). Obviously most people's online names offer few clues. Honestly, as time passes, it's become apparent that there isn't much to discuss anyway -- wetlook is an experience, and the Internet becomes ever more hollow in terms of experience as the years pass.
Second: For me wetlook (boy, that seems like a funny thing to say after all these years struggling for some way to describe it) is a sensual/sexual thing, is it for most?
"Wetlook" is not the optimal word, especially for women. Since it's apparent that men approach this from much more of a visual perspective, it's fitting for men, but for women it would seem to be a lot more about feel and experience. From girls/women I've talked to over the last 12-13 years or so, those who have discovered this subject seem to prefer the feel, just as you've described, and there's never been any suggestion that they have any visual interest in seeing men wet. (Much to my eternal disappointment!) I do recall one woman saying that a wet t-shirt looks good on a guy, but I think that was more the case of showing off physique; in her case, she couldn't stand getting her clothes wet. It's been a mixture of both for me ... all the naughty experimentation in the bath and shower after discovering the sexual side, as well as the visual stimulus of wet women. I've never really found it physically sensual, although there are some fabrics that feel nice wet. Like you, I'm very visual, though I'm a computer programmer, not a designer (though I do all my own graphics).

Third: Do most of you know how you came to be attracted to it?
Good question. I have no idea ... I guess it just "happened". I'm intensely curious about the world around me, and I find that many things that are interesting like wetlook is, have both positive and negative perspectives. Wet hair especially can look a mess, yet it's at once alluring also. I feel the same about body hair on women: I find it both a turn on and a turn off simultaneously. I live so much of my life in this perceptual conflict. I will certainly say that as a bare minimum, I would never complain about it, and I would definitely prefer all nartural over trimmed or hairless.

I also simultaneously see the mundaneness and the sexual appeal of wet hair. (It's wet hair first and foremost, and wet clothes second -- my ideal with wet clothes is a balance between discreet and indiscreet, but try as I may, I cannot find anything that sits within that impossible balance point.)
Fourth: Is it something that sort of “grew” on you or you acquired a taste for or have you liked it most of your life?
It was wet hair originally. I remember dipping my sister's rag dolls in the padding pool just to get their hair wet, even though it bears no resemblance to a person. It grew to an obsession from an early age, though I'd not want to pin down an exact age as my memory for time is dreadful. my love for wet clothes came a bit later. I also used to play with her Barbie dolls in the bath when I was alone ... this does not do their hair any good.
Fifth: Do you yourself like getting wet or do you just like to watch it?
Both. Getting wet at home in the small bathroom is just so confining though (physically and emotionally), so I rarely get wet now. I deleted all the photo albums I made of myself wet in various outfits, but I found them all again in an obsolete copy of my website on my Macintosh, and having rediscovered them, I've left them alone, and since taken a couple more. Essentially to no avail, just a complete waste of time. I am fortunate to have never destroyed my camera, which has lived through ten years of abuse as of last month. (Normally it sees more erudite utilisation in the form of documenting computer keyboard technology, chiefly metal contact keyboard switches -- wetlook has never given me the satisfaction that research does, and I can talk about keyboard research openly!)
Sixth: Is there a predominant clothing that people prefer? Such as jeans and t-shirts or dressier things, with or without shoes?
I've tried all sorts, even "borrowing" skirts and even a bra with nobody looking. I had a t-shirt that looked and felt really nice when it got wet -- it stayed shiny for ages and felt smooth. Sadly, I had to chuck it, as it went through in holes. I find that dress shirts are too tight when wet, and restrict movement -- ideally you need something that, when it clings, doesn't become a straitjacket!
Seventh: If you’re in a relationship, does your partner know about it and or do they do it?
Relationships have never existed outside my imagination, and even there, I nitpick the life out of them.

-- Malvin.
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By Linds - lindsey.ambs@yahoo.com us Wed 11/11/15 22:24:01 GMT

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Hi All

I’m Lindsay and I sort of stumbled onto this site and thought I’d say hi. I never knew there was a word for getting wet in clothes but is nice to know there are others that like it. I'm a woman from the US, 35 yo., single, not really looking for a serious relationship but if it comes along that's great.

 

I have a few questions I’m hoping someone wouldn’t mind taking the time to answer and I’ll explain a few things about myself.

 

First: it seems from the posts here are by guys pretty much for guys. Are there any or many women on here?

 

Second: For me wetlook (boy, that seems like a funny thing to say after all these years struggling for some way to describe it) is a sensual/sexual thing, is it for most?

 

Third: Do most of you know how you came to be attracted to it?

 

Fourth: Is it something that sort of “grew” on you or you acquired a taste for or have you liked it most of your life?

 

Fifth: Do you yourself like getting wet or do you just like to watch it?

 

Sixth: Is there a predominant clothing that people prefer? Such as jeans and t-shirts or dressier things, with or without shoes?

 

Seventh: If you’re in a relationship, does your partner know about it and or do they do it?

 

I know, a ton of questions but for me I’ve loved getting wet in clothes since I was a young kid and my sexual awakening came about because of wetlook, hence the sensual/sexual feelings I have towards it. My parents were very repressive, never talking about sex or anything like that, they basically thought of it as dirty.

 

One day I was riding my bike home and it was raining and I was getting soaked and dirty from the dirty splashing up on me. Even though I knew it wasn’t my fault I knew I’d get in trouble for getting my clothes so dirty so I stopped at this apartment complex close to my house and got in their pool to wash my clothes off. I swam around for a few minutes rubbing my hands all over my body and looking at myself and wet clothes and I had this most wonderful feeling “down there.” I had no idea what it was but wow was it nice.

 

I tried recreating it at home maybe a week or so later but didn’t really know what I did. I tried several times several things but never was able to get that feeling back. Maybe a month or so later, again on my ride home from school, I’m guessing I was probably 10 or so, it was raining I was soaked and dirty, you know, that streak of brown you get on the front and back of you from the rooster tail of your bike tires as you ride through puddles, and I stopped at the apartment complex again. I snuck into the pool like before and was rubbing myself all over and when I started rubbing my pants at my crotch, wow, there was that fantastic feeling again. This time it seemed even better because it wasn’t a surprise like the first time and I’d been trying so hard to recreate.

 

Eureka, I thought, I know what to do. A couple of days later I put on a bathing suit and sneaked over the fence of our backyard into the neighbors yard. They had a pool so I got in and started rubbing myself but nothing. What the hell. I mean it felt pretty good, I’d found that out before in my experimenting, but not that incredibly warm, tingly, super great feeling.

 

Finally after a lot of experimenting, and I mean a lot, I finally figured out what to do to get that feeling back by playing with myself but it usually seemed like a lot of work. Sometimes it would work and sometimes it really wouldn’t. I still didn’t know these things were called orgasms. My parents didn’t really let me have any friends so I didn’t have anyone to talk to and figure things out.

 

Summer came and went and at my school, a couple of weeks after the start of the school year started, everyone from fifth grade to twelfth grade got on busses and had a day at the beach. It was Sand Castle Day and I know everyone looked forward to it every year. Each class would get together and see who would build the best sand castle. You couldn’t wear bathing suits or go swimming but you could wear shorts which you normally couldn’t wear to school. It was a very conservative religious school so the dress code was very strict.

 

I had forgotten that we were able to wear shorts for Sand Castle Day but remembered that we could wear jeans that day so I showed up at school in jeans, which we also weren’t able to wear normally, and a t-shirt and flip flops, also both of which we normally weren’t allowed to wear. I felt like a dork since almost all the other kids had shorts on but I wasn’t all that concerned, a few of my classmates had jeans on so at least I wouldn’t be the only one.

 

We got to the beach and everyone started working on the sand castles and I was helping my class and a wave came up and I was working on the moat and got my legs pretty wet. The water felt nice because it was cool and it was a warm day so instead of trying to stay dry I tried to get as wet as I could. Most of the kids stayed pretty dry but I was by far the wettest.

 

After awhile I went to get a drink of water and this other girl that I knew, who was also wearing jeans, said we should sneak over the rocks. She’s heard that some of the other kids had gone over to a semi hidden cove on the other side and were swimming. I loved the water and swimming so I said sure and we managed to go over the rocks without any teacher seeing us and sure enough there were about 20 kids of various ages swimming and playing in the surf.

 

I told the girl, Emily, we should go swimming but she said we couldn’t because we were wearing jeans, not shorts like everyone else. I looked around and did see another girl and guy with jeans on and I pointed it out to her. She was skeptical but she walked to the water’s edge and got her feet wet before rolling her pant legs up. I figured hell, I’m already pretty wet, I’m going in so I just waded in to about my knees and then dove under water.

 

I loved the way the water felt on me, the way my clothes clung to me like shrink wrap when I got out of the water, the way my clothes would float across my skin when I was submerged. When I’d walk out of the water I noticed how shiny my jeans were and how they looked like a colored second skin. I started noticing how the other kids looked. The kids in shorts looked okay but really looked like bathing suits but the others that were in jeans and t-shirts really looked cool I thought.

 

After splashing her a lot and finally dragging her into the water I got Emily to swim some with me. I’d keep going out of the water to feel my clothes cling to me and feel them slowly release as I got back in the water and I noticed how need Emily’s clothes looked as they would cling to her when she got out. I was splashing around about knee deep in the water when suddenly our of nowhere bam, that feeling hit me and I almost fell to my knees from how good it felt.

 

I looked around to see if anyone else could tell how great I was feeling and it seemed like I was the only one who could tell. To say that rocked my world is an understatement. Once the feelings subsided I went back out into the water and started playing with and rubbing myself like I had when I figured out how to masturbate and again wham, there it was again. Two in one day much less an hour was incredible and with weak knees I got out of the water.

 

We finally went back to where everyone else was but the rest of the day was a blur to me because I thought I knew finally how this thing worked.

 

Okay, well, I had no intention of writing all that, it just sort of came back to me. I’ve gotten wet in a bunch of different clothes and shoes and in a bunch of different places and that’s how I got started in wetlook. I’ve always kept a diary and looking back through it, it’s amazing how many times I’ve managed to get wet. It’s also fun to re-read my diary because it’s sort of like reliving the times I’ve had a blast, had orgasms, gotten in trouble, and gotten others wet.

 

I’ve thought of starting a blog from my diary, posting some of my wetlook experiences but not sure if anyone would even find them interesting. I guess I’d like to share my love for wetlook with others and somehow let others know it’s not weird, which I thought for years, it’s a way to have a good time if nothing else.

 

Sorry this is so long. I’d post a picture of myself here so you could put a face to the story but don’t know if that’s possible. If someone wants to let me know, assuming anyone’s gotten this far down, how to do that I can put one up.

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