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Message # 73737.5 Subject: Re:Wetlook is consuming my mind Date: Mon 11/06/18 00:45:40 GMT Name: Malvineous Email: mrnemesis@ntlworld.com |
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I suppose my question would be this: does your wife participate in your fetish, and how willingly?
I'm not as old as you (late 30s), but permanently single, and I remain ever hopeful that — were I to find a girlfriend with whom I can share the fetish — some of the anxiety might wear off. That is, once I can experience the fetish for real in person, I won't be left wondering about it and craving it so much. Maybe it will even become a bit stale.
I guess however that it does not wear off!
Fortunately it does not consume all of my thoughts, and I don't spend lots of money on it (nothing besides purchases from producers): I may soak the clothes I buy, but I buy them solely to wear, not to soak. I suppose if I could swim, I would have more opportunities to blow money on it! However, lots of things trigger thoughts about it.
I also have a fascination with hairy women, which is a curious one, as there is virtually no crossover between wetlook and natural body hair. (There are lots of combinations rarely seen, such as wetlook with black women, wetlook with redheads, wetlook with curly hair ...)
For me, part of the obsession is understanding how every shape, style and colour of hair looks when wet. Long, short, thin, thick, straight, wavy, curly, brown, grey, blonde, red … What makes this all the more awkward is that you can never determine what hair is natural. For example, I am guessing that Megan from Knight Owl (Splashin in Fashion) has naturally curly hair rather than permed, but I can't tell. (Same goes for body hair on women: you can't ever be sure how much has been shaved or trimmed away.)
I have another fascination: the question of whether it's possible to have clothes that cling beautifully to breasts when wet, but that looked perfectly decent when dry. I notice that a lot of clothes tend to either remain non-clingy (a lot of dresses), or are very clingy when wet but already have a slightly slutty look when dry (especially without a bra). That is, the idea that someone could dress modestly but yet look superb when wet.
Existing wetlook productions resolve far too few of these fascinations!
It is a relief when I'm not obsessing over it and get some mental peace! (And certainly, a relationship won't help there as I'd only have one hair and body type to explore!) |
In reply to Message (73737) Wetlook is consuming my mind
By SwimInClothes - Swim.in.clothes@hotmail.com Sun 10/06/18 15:36:26 GMT Hi all, Been into wetlook since I was can remember - probably around 5 years old. I’m 46 now and it feels like over time it’s more and more on my mind. Feels like a bit of an obsession for me lately. Ive built two in ground pools over my life and bought a boat, kayaks, floats, etc with wetlook as the ultimate reasoning. Bought over $3000 in Ralph Lauren Polo Rugby shirts, numerous pairs of jeans, numerous pairs of white tube socks, Japanese schoolgirl long socks, 15 pair of Ugg boots for my wife and I, you get the point. I think about it every day. If I see water, I think about it. If I see my pool I think about it. If my wife put jeans on I think about it. I just bought another kayak while thinking about it. I’m going to a psychologist, initially because when we have people over I feel like I have to swim in a swimsuit but he’s telling me people could care less what I wear and just do it. But also because I feel like it is mind consuming and I don’t want it to affect my career in any way. Any one else feeling this way? I don’t know if I should worry or not. I just feel like all I want to do all day every day is swim clothed. It’s not causing any financial hardships, but it’s certainly not helping me with my plan of retiring early either :/.
Thanks in advance!
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