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Message # 68500.7 Subject: Re:Raising children around wetlook Date: Mon 10/10/16 10:29:02 GMT Name: Emil |
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One of my g/f (40 years old) had a pool in the backyard we used for regular wl sessions (more than just swimming) but never when her kids (9 and 13) were around.
BUT
We did show them that swimming is possible nude, trunks ore with a bit more ..... and we tried to put swimwear as normal and the two others as an exception that is not weird. We did jumps-in at night nude with a lot of laughter, swim during daytime in swimwear and had some fun beeing pushed in while dressed. So we had a good excuse when they surprised us while swimming in jeans .....
I enjoy wl very much but sometimes believe that it origins from "it's not allowed swimming in clothes".
Enjoy your pool, Emil
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In reply to Message (68500) Raising children around wetlook
By Swim.In.Clothes - swim.in.clothes@outlook.com Sun 09/10/16 21:44:09 GMT Hello all, Looking for some honest opinions. We're raising our first kids - two year old twin boys - and I'm always wondering if my partaking in getting soaked around them is inappropriate in any way. I've questioned it enough in my mind that I even went to see a sex therapist who deals in sex addiction and the likes. She told me that because my desire to get wet is sexually oriented, it's not appropriate for me to be swimming clothed around my kids, and that I should wait until they're in bed or down for a nap. The problem I have with that is we have a swimming pool in the back yard and during the warm months, we swim nearly every day. I don't feel like I can abstain during any swimming at all - it does feel like an addiction that I can't break, so I feel like I must swim clothed no matter what. Is it inappropriate? I do know better than to do anything sexually in front of the kids (sex with the wife, relieving myself, etc). Is it inappropriate because I'm going to be automatically aroused by swimming clothed? I feel so torn - I always want to do what's right for my kids, and I do feel a bit self-centered by saying I "have" to be clothed in the pool. What would you do?
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