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Subject: Re:Maybe some hope???

Date: Mon 16/07/12 16:07:13 GMT

Name: AnthonyX

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Something about your approach just doesn't seem right. In my opinion, the best way to handle it is to find an opportunity where you can start a conversation about sex and turn-ons - where you can introduce the topic by exploring what turns her on so that you can reciprocate by telling her about how much it would turn you on to see her in a wet dress, t-shirt, whatever your preference. Sort it out in a conversation rather than try to guess by setting up situations. My sense is that she will notice what appears to her to be odd behaviour, possibly suspecting some sort of hidden agenda, and it won't go well. She could end up suspecting something less innocent and you'll be stuck with either a trust or perception issue you may never resolve.

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Maybe some hope???

By Panayiotis Constantinides - panos81c@otenet.gr Mon 16/07/12 08:47:02 GMT

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I have known my fiancee for the last three years, and so far she doesn't seem to show any interest about wetlook. Even when we went to Cyprus together, where you can see many tourists, particularly from the UK and Scandinavia, swimming with some sort of clothing on (mostly t-shirts and shorts, but still better than nothing) either she wouldn't pay any particular attention, or she would comment on it as being something weird, that she wouldn't seem interested in doing it herself.

Yesterday, we were discussing about going to a theme park on Saturday, which also has water rides, and she said she would like to go on those. She told me to have shorts on rather than long trousers, and I said that the last thing I need was to get soaking wet. She answered "OK, but I'll go". Pretending I'm not that interested in wetlook myself either, I said "You don't mind getting all soaked? You'll get as wet as if you went into the sea with all clothes on". And she answered "So what? It wouldn't be a problem for me to swim with my clothes on if I had to. I just don't do it when we go to the beach because hardly anyone else does it".

So... any suggestions on how to persuade her to have clothes on next time we go to the sea for swimming? When we go on holiday in August, it may be easier for her because we may come across other tourists doing in too so she wouldn't feel as the odd one out.

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