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Subject: Re:Raising children in a wetlook family

Date: Sun 02/11/14 16:46:03 GMT

Name: john Dulac

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I've been where you're at. My wife and I had to consider this problem and decided to do what we do and say nothing to our first -- a little boy. Rather than make a fuss, we continued swimming as we do and the boy, now older, had a clear choice of coming in "as he was" or wearing a bathing suit. Pool fun was supposed to be fun, and if he had more fun, one way or the other, it was up to him . He split his choice about 50-50, and if the neighbor's kids came over, we just explained that our "fashion" was something we did and made no more fuss about it. Soon, neighbors and their kids did about the same 50-50 split.

Of course, we made sure that with company, we behaved ourselves and no one was the wiser.

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Raising children in a wetlook family

By SwimInClothes - swim.in.clothes@hotmail.com Sun 02/11/14 15:59:56 GMT

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Hi all,

I've been sitting, and pondering here in the hospital with the wifey who's preggo with twins - 31 1/2 weeks along (her water broke) - with lots of time to think and try to fight the boredom, and was starting to imagine how our active wetlook lives will be different with two baby boys running around. I really don't think it will be too different when they are babies, but I often wonder what might change or questions might come up from them when they're old enough to realize Mommy and Daddy are swimming in different attire than everyone else. I'm sure it will be a non-event since they'll be used to seeing it, but I still wonder. I also am afraid of the possibility that wifey will suddenly be uncomfortable being fully clothed in our pool with the kids awake and running around like she is with friends or family who is visiting :(.

In somewhat of a similar (?) situation, we have two lady friends who are "a pair" and who raised two children together and their (now teen) children seem oblivious to it but they still have not talked about it and don't think the children even know (I think that's suspect, but it's just not talked about.) Obviously, I will not and cannot hide my constant desire for partaking in wetlook, and don't think I need to (other than hiding any photos/videos I have, of course). I guess it just is going to feel a bit different/weird having new eyes regularly seeing what I've hidden for 38ish years, let alone family!

Anyone else brought up new baby or babies in a pro-wetlook home have any helpful advice or experience to share? I know i'm probably over analyzing and probably have nothing to worry about (except for my wife suddenly feeling like she has to "be good" in front of the kids!)

TIA

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